{"id":33,"date":"2012-03-26T20:45:00","date_gmt":"2012-03-26T20:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/?p=33"},"modified":"2012-03-26T20:45:00","modified_gmt":"2012-03-26T20:45:00","slug":"romance-marriage-monday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/?p=33","title":{"rendered":"ROMANCE (Marriage Monday)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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~WASTE NOT a minute of your time together~<\/div>\n
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Life is short, eternity doesn’t include marriage so enjoy it while you can!\u00a0 With how fast time moves, the older you get and the more kids you have, you must seize the moment.\u00a0 While my man can be ‘shy’ about hugs and kisses in public I am not.\u00a0 He has learned to let me, and I have learned to find a lot of pleasure out of his embarrassment (wink).\u00a0 Basically, even if the kids are around we flirt, tease and laugh with one another because lets face it, date nights and perfect romantic moments alone are rare, due to financial limitations and the amount of little people we have to disrupt it all.\u00a0 Every little moment to be romantic counts.\u00a0 He passes me in the kitchen and I grab his beard and pull him in for a kiss.\u00a0 I walk by with the laundry and he gives me a hug (upsetting the laundry).\u00a0 We are getting pretty good at not wasting time, so much so that the kids have noticed.\u00a0 The other night I said, more to my man then to the kids, “Off to bed you guys, I need to give your Dad trouble for eating all my goat cheese (yes I take my favorite snacks seriously)”.\u00a0 To this my daughter responded with, “Oh yeah right (sarcasm already, she is only ten), you’re just gonna cover him in smooch-y kisses”!<\/p>\n

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I knew even when we where still dating that I was the romantic one.\u00a0 The one who needed, and noticed the most romantic little moments.\u00a0 Thus I quickly got good at telling him clearly what we should do, pointing out when we where in the middle of a perfectly romantic moment, and MAKING THEM HAPPEN MYSELF.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
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The way I got over the feminine tendency to be frustrated at him, for ‘not getting it on his own’, was to start seeing when he actually was being romance in ‘his own way’, and to accept, appreciatively, his uniqueness in this area.\u00a0 When he would throw me over his shoulder and laugh at my screams, this was romantic to him.\u00a0 When he would buy me a chocolate bar and eat half then smile as I reprimanded him, this was romantic to him.\u00a0 When he follows me with his eyes, usually when I am sick or tired or just a mess, this is VERY romantic to him.\u00a0 All of the previously mentioned ‘man romance’ moments now make me laugh, and love him even more!\u00a0 Finding contentment in how one another ticks, finding joy at how unique they are from what\u00a0 ones culture calls ‘romantic’, is key to a happy and flirt-y relationship.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Practically, we literally carve out time for one another.\u00a0 Yes we try to go on dates but mostly we work hard to keep our schedules much more calm then what is normal speed all around us.\u00a0 We make it a family priority to have plenty of unplanned free time for all, and then to enjoy it with one another.<\/p>\n

Time is so romantic \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

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~WASTE NOT a minute of your time together~ Life is short, eternity doesn’t include marriage so enjoy it while you can!\u00a0 With how fast time moves, the older you get and the more kids you have, you must seize the moment.\u00a0 While my man can be ‘shy’ about hugs and kisses in public I am […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[7,21,3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=33"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=33"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=33"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ladymacblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=33"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}