Sex with your spouse because more enjoyable when:
- Both person’s are thinking of the other; the other’s desires, needs and just about them in general.
- You accept men and women work differently and don’t judge but willingly work with the, not always complimentary, way we each are.
- You are free with one another, brave, able to try new and fresh things together.
- You trust one another. Trust is earned but is also given when you really love someone and want to build your faith in them.
- You give MORE time for one another, not worrying about it being quality but quantity.
- You are intimate more often; the more you have sex the better it gets.
TTFN
Living outside of God’s design for sex, (within the parameters of marriage only) will only reap sadness and emptiness. I know since I can speak from experience. When you are with the one that God has for you, the intimacies of the marriage relationship are limitless! It’s one of those kingdom principle of putting God first individually that as a couple you become even closer! Thanks for sharing!
Connie
Sex really is an exercise in “loving” each other in more than just a physical way. Thanks for bringing light to that, and for offering some very helpful suggestions as well!
Indeed, practice makes perfect… the more you have, the better it gets!
As always, thanks for joining us for Marriage Monday today, Mac an Rothaich.
Blessings, e-Mom @ Chrysalis
Great advice! I agree that it really is all about putting the other person’s needs first. Thanks for these reminders!
I love Beth’s comment. And your admonition to think of the other first is dead on. I get frustrated when I don’t think he’s meeting my needs. When I set out to meet his, I find a greater desire from him to react in kind.
Yes, it takes sensitivity to the fulfillment of each other’s needs to be truly happy with the gift of marriage. And if one’s need isn’t met, communication will help.